Q&A: postpone my wedding?
Question by casey_marie122: postpone my wedding?
my fiance and i always planned on a family but not until we were married. we have been planning a huge wedding for over a year and last month we found out i was near 5 months pregnant with twins. i have a small frame and have not shown until i recently popped. we have still not told anyone about my pregnancy as my family is extremely traditional, as is his. it is becoming difficult for me to finish the wedding plans. my belly is just constantly sore and my morning sickness is excruciating. my mother has become suspicious that my fiance goes to all the planning “meetings” she has instead of me.
I am not sure how to tell our traditional families, or if i should postpone the wedding, as I will be near 7 months when it takes place. i can’t imagine doing a wedding pregnant, as i am already miserable.
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Answer by sheilamiagirl
Be honest and tell everyone. Can you move up the wedding date? If not, get married by a JP and then when you are ready have the big wedding. But don’t postpone. Get married first. Then you can have your dream wedding.
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3 de April, 2011 at 12:59 pm
Do you want me to tell you what you want to hear or what you should do?
Either way, the wedding is supposed to be the happiest time of your life. It is the beggining of your life as one. With tears of joy and anticipation, you are supposed to take the world side by side. And if you continue on this path, this will not be the happiest time of your life. You have a secret that you are keeping from your parents. Oh, and by the way, they will find out one way or another. Whether it is on the wedding day, when they see you a little chubbier as they help you put on your wedding dress, or when the children are born TWO months after the wedding. Then you will feel worst because they will feel betrayed that you kept this from them.
I say this. Sit them down. Tell them the great news (because it is wonderful news that they will be grandparents). They might be upset for a while, a day or a week, but then they will support you and the wedding day will be so much happier for all.
I would normally say postpone the wedding until after, but I know how it feels, as a guy, to have to postpone a wedding not once, twice, but three times and four years later. You need to talk to your family and come to a decision as a family (that is you and your future hasband). Just keep in mind that your parents will love you no matter what you decide, but you also need to afford them the opportunity to be involved with this pregnancy too.
3 de April, 2011 at 1:51 pm
Don’t postpone, just change plans. Have a very small ceremony as soon as possible, with close family.